The unheard (अनसुना )

PART 1

Whoever attempts to commit suicide and does any act towards the commission of such offence, shall be punished with simple imprisonment for a term which may extend to one year or with fine, or with both.

Section 309 I.P.C.

According to David Emile Durkheim, a French sociologist,

"The term suicide is applied to all cases of death resulting directly or indirectly from a positive or negative act of the victim himself, which he knows will produce this result. He also believes that because of high levels of anomie there are high levels of suicide".

Suicide is an important issue in the Indian context. More than one lakh (one hundred thousand) lives are lost every year to suicide in our country.

Suicide, is an act of taking one's own life. An act, of escaping from sufferings and pain of life, people choose this option. As if they are not knowing that suicide will end them, not their suffering.

Do really? Does it end their sufferings or just it's an end of a life!

What leads a person to decide to end their own life?

Frustrating everytime ? (Don't make it your nature)

Aggression? (Had you in your hands everything people just have in their wildest dreams? Nope, change your pattern than!)

Depression?

Or...

It's Dissatisfaction.

Dissatisfaction naturally leads a person towards aggression.

A chronology which binds all of us in age and achievements are notably:

Studies, job and marriage should be within the age either decided by you or your parents or society.

Is life unfair?

NO, straight and defining, life could not be always as you wishes so, if you didn't get any of the desired status within age chronology you may feel it impaired or get dissatisfied in your life.

And, by seeing others getting achievement according to that, we obviously feel angry. And then, person gets irritated and that

Irritation leads to frustration,

Frustration leads to aggression.. Aggression when not expressed then it leads to depression..

Now know it in simple terms:

Depression (major depressive disorder)-

is a common and serious medical illness that negatively affects how you feel, the way you think and how you act. Fortunately, it is also treatable. Depression causes feelings of sadness and/or a loss of interest in activities once enjoyed. It can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems and can decrease a person’s ability to function at work and at home.

And, depression..If not cured in time leads a person towards taking his/her own life.

Its not like a depressed person can immediately run to take his/ her life. No.

A person, before moving towards depression give signs or show symptoms to people around them that they are in need of help. They are in need to be heard.

But due to the fear of being laughed at by people around them, or being locked in a taboo like, being called a failure or madman, a traumatised person fail to speak of their heart to others.

Though the exact cause of such untimely death can not be said with certain definiteness, I have a urge to depict several, seeing it mostly in present scenarios as causes of suicide:

• Unemployment

• Poverty

• Exam/career failure

• Low grades

• Business failure

• Bankruptcy/indebtedness

• Property dispute

• Social defaming

• Drug abuse/addiction

• Due to some physical/mental illness

• Marital issues (dowry, divorce, infertility, illicit relations after marriage)

• Love affair/infidelity/relationship failure

• Physical abuse(molestation, rape)

• Alcohol abuse (in family and marriage)

• Domestic violence

These are some of the most common reasons to suicide, by people.

But all these are curable, means all these can be resolved by Dr. Time, or meagre attention, it doesn't need a life.

It's hard to continue through, a hard phase in life but it should never cost a life. Each of us faces one or other issues in our lives, what it needs:

1. A strong will power to face such phase and

2. Patience to let the hard/harsh time pass.

Suicidal thoughts/tendency

When a person completely believe that they are in a black hole of their particular problem and there wouldn't be any end to their problem, they start thinking about ending their life as if their suicide is the only solution to their situation. So instead of thinking the ways to control or overcome any problem or tough situations they are, they start thinking about ways to end themselves thoroughly.

Helplessness, feeling hapless or hopelessness towards situation, no control over situation and self destructing thoughts results in suicidal thoughts habituating suicidal tendencies in a person.

Overcoming suicidal thoughts-

• First and foremost, communication. Talk to someone you can believe upon say, parents, friends, trusted colleague, or neighbour.

• Coming out of the situation is not in your hands but to come out of that particular moment is. Try to move out of toxic environment.

• Meditations assists in deviating from certain feelings which one think inhibit their growth as a person enlightened or envisioned.

• Be with your stronghold in terms of emotional security, yes it could be a emotional turmoil too! but remember those time which you have spend with your parents.

• Child left just as a name has nothing to do with their family, but if you have its quite engaging to remember your childhood times, if cradle swings extereme South, definitely it will return to North! Do I have a need to discuss flow of a swing?

• Do your age lacks compassion? Try to be a giver first, this makes a life fruitful, if hope is a double edged sword, its holder should also be ever ready to stand in forefront, I know life is not necessarily a battlefield, one needs to be happy go lucky.

• A dot around Sun could be a Star why you should be panicking situation lover?

As Jean Rousseau notioned a person is born free but everywhere is in chains I feel this chain is so benevolent just it never strangulate, its also okay you feel like at the same time whole world is so cunning and delaying your cherished, but does it matters?

• Have distinction between living and non-living, be productive.

• My love for cooking and serving is such a immense one, that I even suggest all of you finding it relatable, As all day work and work makes Jack a dull boy, we too are some type of Jack's own virtue!

Fun fact:- Jack is also termed as donkey!

• If world would have been made in one day, there would be no lovely places to see or reside, but it is not, your most loved God painted this for you just, feel something special about you.

If you have paused your laughing attributes please press it again,(even if you have to read jokes). Laughter is not evil.

• Even a three year old kid draws, if you are 3+, I don't think anything should deter you!

• Now a simple fact

Photosynthesis results "Oxygen", the precious food to lungs and several severe diseases, world combating now!

What about You?

Lord Buddha, asked Angulimal to repaste that plucked leave, and one who was infuriated over his claim that he can change Angulimal's desires to kill and cut fingers, so that his necklet grows long, will be defied, what was that philosophy? Come close to your actual life passions.

• Ask my personal favourite among writers? I'm having a guess right now, you wishes so, yup, none other than -

Munshi Premchand, R. L. Stevenson.

However one have their own preference I had made this man/woman.

• Be busy in your heart but be also busy bee in real life! Are you still adamant in fleeing!

• Raag Dipak, it lit so will it,

Yes! Ofcourse find pleasure in music, of your heart, I love to coin it as Music(ing)

• Yo! That parroting innocents how they walk gripping their parents/guardian, lemme make you informed I'm a kid howsoever long, I want to be.

• Happy Birthday!

Oh today don't have your favourite Day, then read it each time you feel like you are germinating, its a birth not joke, engage in some gardening activities your local one, your city, your institution once a while, salary (major cause of depression), may, work as procurement but not this, it is super giving.